Tuesday Tidbit

Posted April 23, 2013 by El
Categories: Diversity, Quotes, Tuesday Tidbit

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This past week, I started facilitating the Ohio Diversity Council Network discussion group on LinkedIn. Diversity and Inclusion is often referred to when discussing cultural and racial differences, but it also refers to generational, gender, religious, economic, or personal orientation differences. Appreciating what makes each of us different can make all of us stronger.

As leaders, we need to leverage the uniqueness of our team members to enhance the performance of the whole team. How to honor those differences while keeping everyone moving in the same direction is one of the many challenges of leadership. With diversity and inclusion in mind, here are some related quotes:

It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences. -Audre Lorde

Diversity: the art of thinking independently together. -Malcolm Forbes

The price of the democratic way of life is a growing appreciation of people’s differences, not merely as tolerable, but as the essence of a rich and rewarding human experience. -Jerome Nathanson

You were born an original … Don’t die a copy. -John Mason

Civilization is the process in which one gradually increases the number of people included in the term ‘we’ or ‘us’ and at the same time decreases those labeled ‘you’ or ‘them’ until that category has no one left in it. -Howard Winters

Do you have a favorite quote on this topic? Add a comment and share!

 

Tuesday Tidbits are weekly messages I send to my leadership team. They are generally short & sweet, often focused on leadership or teamwork, always positive and, hopefully, motivational. I hope you also find some meaning in them.

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Thank you Thursday

Posted April 18, 2013 by El
Categories: Current Events, Sports, Thank-You Thursday

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Often times, singing the Star Spangled Banner is an activity that we don’t really give much thought to.  It’s a common formality before many sporting events, something we have to get through in order to get to the action.  We hear it played by marching bands in July 4th parades.  Other than that, not too often.

Sometimes, singing the song is even met with groans.  It’s too hard to sing, it doesn’t have a peppy spirit, it’s often poorly done by even the best professionals. At times, it’s even been proposed that a different song should be our anthem; America the Beautiful is a common suggestion.

Today, I am thankful for our national anthem.

There is nothing quite as stirring as a crowd moved to extraordinary patriotism, giving their all to the musical version of Francis Scott Key’s poem.  Voices always peak at this point:

…Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there. Oh, say, does that star-spangled banner yet wave, o’er the land of the free and the home of the brave?

If you haven’t seen it yet, (or, even if you have!) watch this short video of the national anthem being sung before last night’s Boston Bruins hockey game.  It was the first professional sporting event in Boston since the explosions at Monday’s Boston Marathon.


How could we not be moved by those words and that spirit?  I guess it’s not a hard song to sing, after all, when we really need to.

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What are you thankful for?

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Tuesday Tidbit

Posted April 16, 2013 by El
Categories: Current Events, Quotes, Tuesday Tidbit

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After yesterday’s news, I quickly decided to change course on this week’s Tuesday Tidbit. I am writing this shortly after getting home from class, about 8:15 p.m. Monday evening. At this writing, there is still much chaos in the coverage of the Boston explosions. Memories of 9/11 are being invoked.

Here are two quick tidbits in response; one well-known quote from Mister Rogers, the other a heartfelt quote from my math professor.

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Mister Rogers shared much wisdom during his lifetime. Perhaps none as meaningful as the message he shared to comfort children after the 9/11 bombing. These words still bring comfort to me, and I hope they do for you, as well.

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’

To this day, especially in times of ‘disaster,’ I remember my mother’s words, and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers — so many caring people in this world.”

As I watch the news coverage out of Boston today, I see the helpers everywhere, comforting those who are injured and frightened. We are fortunate to have such people among us.

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My math professor is a Romanian immigrant, in his late 40s, I think. About midway through class last night, he paused, laid his chalk on the desk, looked slowly around the room and said,

“I must stop and empty my heart and talk about what happened in Boston today.

You know that I came to this country in 1990. I couldn’t speak any English. I was told by people to just say, “I must stay in this country.”

People in this country are so kind. There is so much goodness here. I do not undertand why anyone would have so much hate for the people in this country. People here just want to help other people.”

Let’s all remember that today and everyday; focus on the good, the kind, the helpful.

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Tuesday Tidbits are weekly messages I send to my leadership team. They are generally short & sweet, often focused on leadership or teamwork, always positive and, hopefully, motivational. I hope you also find some meaning in them.

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Thank you Thursday

Posted April 11, 2013 by El
Categories: Aging, Living Fully Present, Possibility, Thank-You Thursday

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Long time readers know that I have been going to Otterbein University, pursuing a college degree, for several years.  Achieving that goal is finally within reach; I will graduate on May 19. Commencement plans are well underway.

Tickets reserved? Check? Family travel plans made? Check. Cap and gown picked up? Check. Announcements ready? Check.

Then, two weeks ago, this envelope came in the mail:

To the parents of...

Inside the envelope was an invitation to parents of graduates to “Celebrate your Senior!” by purchasing an advertisement in the school newspaper, the Tan & Cardinal.  Of course, the T&C had traditional-aged student and their parents in mind.  My husband and I got a good chuckle out of the idea of him placing this ad (we are not going to!).

Yet, I still have the envelope.  I can’t bring myself to throw it away. I keep thinking about it.

“To the parents of:”

My Dad died in 2004. Mom, last year.  As German immigrants with the equivalent of an 8th and 10th grade education they were proud, even somewhat in awe, as I dipped my toe in the collegiate waters several years ago.  I had recently been promoted to my first management role and felt I could be more successful and have more future opportunities if I furthered my education.

Mom and Dad would have been beaming at the idea of their daughter finally graduating from college.

Today, I am thankful for unexpected reminders of my parents, and the pause those reminders give me to reflect on them..

What are you thankful for?

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Tuesday Tidbit

Posted April 9, 2013 by El
Categories: Leadership, Quotes, Tuesday Tidbit

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Did you know Winston Churchill was an honorary citizen of the United States? The honor was bestowed on him by President John F. Kennedy in 1963. Churchill was only the second foreign national to be honored in such a way, and the first since the late 1700s. April 9 celebrates that event and so do the Churchill quotes below!

Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.

Criticism may not be agreeable, but it is necessary. It fulfills the same function as pain in the human body. It calls attention to an unhealthy state of things.

The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

Continuous effort – not strength or intelligence – is the key to unlocking our potential.

It is no use saying, ‘We are doing our best.’ You have got to succeed in doing what is necessary.

Isn’t it interesting how quotes from the 1940s and 50s are still applicable today? Timeless wisdom, indeed.

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Tuesday Tidbits are weekly messages I send to my leadership team. They are generally short & sweet, often focused on leadership or teamwork, always positive and, hopefully, motivational. I hope you also find some meaning in them.

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Thank you Thursday

Posted April 4, 2013 by El
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I love our community.  Even though we’ve lived in Central Ohio for over 20 years, there’s always something new to discover.  Today, we were introduced to our community garden.

When our kids were young and I was a stay at home Mom, we had a garden every year.  It was such fun with the kids – and the fresh veggies were delicious!  As the kids grew up and moved out, my husband and I were busy with work and school and gardening fell by the wayside.

As life would have it, once we moved into a condo and no longer had a big backyard, we decided it would be fun to once again have a garden!

Today, I am thankful for community gardens.

gardenTonight was the ribbon-cutting, officially opening the Spring planting season.  There are about forty gardens, 10×10 and 20×20.  The township had the soil turned over and plots lined with string.  There’s a bluebird project underway and also birdhouses for a certain type of swallow that visits each year.  There are picnic tables and benches so the gardeners can pause for a rest.  In the distant field, there is some kind of water garden project in development.  It’s quiet.  It’s peaceful.

About fifteen of the gardeners were there for the ribbon-cutting, a few firefighters, a couple local township trustees, and members of the township government.  Someone took pictures for the local paper.  The experienced gardeners shared expert tips and asked each other about various specialty plants. Us newbies were just hopeful we would have a harvest of some kind!

Our 15×20 plot was just $20 to lease for the season.  I have a feeling, though, that the fun, the produce, the peace and the good neighboring we’ll experience will bring much more value than that; in fact, it will be priceless.

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What are you thankful for?

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Tuesday Tidbit

Posted April 2, 2013 by El
Categories: Random, Tuesday Tidbit

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Last week’s Tuesday Tidbit offered a Jelly Bean Personality activity. Each standard jelly bean color was linked to a set of personality traits. When I sent it to the team at work, my boss responded,

“I don’t like jelly beans. What can you do with peanut M&Ms?”

Not one to shy away from the boss’s challenge, I did a little research. There are indeed personality quizzes and other activities based on M&M colors. Who knew?

Yellow: You are a mystery to those around you. You are self-aware and introspective. You know who you are and you’re good with that. You’re doing what you love and that changes from day to day.

Orange: You are an energetic, even hyper, person. You love to act swiftly. You are brilliant and pioneering. You can have a ruthless streak and are always looking out for number one. You live more boldly than anyone you know.

Red: You are an enthusiastic and easily excitable person. The world is brimming with so many possibilities for you. You have a lot of energy that comes is short spurts. You are easily inspired, very creative and mentally sharp.

Brown: You are a very emotional person. You are sympathetic and compassionate to friends and strangers. You can be accommodating and attentive, but you never let anyone walk all over you. You love easily and become attached quickly.

Blue: You are an affable and likable person. You are a natural people-pleaser. You change your mind often because everything ends up sounding good to you. You love people and are an optimist about everyone you meet.

Green: You are a compassionate and forgiving person. You believe the world truly lacks understanding. You want to be a positive force in other people’s lives. You are reliable, faithful, non-judgmental and you strive for harmony and peace.

I heard from several people that the Jelly Bean Personality activity was amazingly accurate. How do you match up to your favorite M&M color?

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Tuesday Tidbits are weekly messages I send to my leadership team. They are generally short & sweet, often focused on leadership or teamwork, always positive and, hopefully, motivational. I hope you also find some meaning in them.

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The above M&M Personality Traits are adapted from Personality Cafe, and several M&M quizzes I took last night. Let’s call it research!


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