I had lunch today with an old friend. Susan was one of my college instructors a few years ago. I was in her classes for three of the four core leadership classes at Otterbein University. After completing her classes, I wanted/needed more so I engaged her as an ontological business coach (meaning, an emphasis on discovering what’s possible). We worked together for about two years.
Personally and professionally, I have grown more through my conversations with Susan than I possibly could have imagined.
Today was no different. After exchanging hugs and catching up on our children, we started talking about work, life, challenges, and opportunities. Susan has a knack – no, a skill – for bringing people to a place of clarity. She always listens carefully, asks the right questions and helps me see the answers that were always there.
One of my many favorite Susan teachings is: You can’t ‘fix’ the past. It’s over. It’s done. You can, however, create a new future. Then, she helps you discover what might be possible for you in that future.
Today, I am thankful for people like Susan, who generously help others find their authentic best selves.
Do you have a “Susan” in your life? How has that person helped you grow?
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