I don’t know that I have answers to all of your questions, but I am thrilled that this post has caused you to think about them. I guess one thing I would say is that – I believe – part of the reason that people don’t uncover who they are meant to be is the fear of what others will think and actual judgments that are put on them by others. If we can be truly accepting of their authentic self, we can break down that barrier, creating a space of freedom and support. Yes, the journey of self-discovery is theirs, but we can help clear the path a bit.

Some people find it so easy to “be who they are meant to be” yet I think most struggle to find that. While you can be accepting of what others in your life want to be, and encourage it, I think it is hard for many to identify “what they are meant to be”. How does one figure that out? Also how do people find confidence in themselves? I know you start by identifying your strengths and build on that but translating that into a job is very challenging especially in this economic market.

But beyond a “job” I guess to you last question, other than listening to others and encouraging them to try activities etc. that are in line with their best self, how do you help someone – or is that all you can really do? In the end, they have to take the leap.